tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3982688255539009262.post1441665397027312024..comments2023-03-08T12:53:50.231+00:00Comments on lisbonpsy: AngerClara Pracanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07460751445456199939noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3982688255539009262.post-58491200499742107472009-06-27T23:03:25.411+01:002009-06-27T23:03:25.411+01:00Janice,
of course youyre right. I mispelled. I m...Janice,<br /><br />of course youyre right. I mispelled. I meant : ... deal with it WITHOUT being... <br />Sorry to all the readers.Clara Pracanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07460751445456199939noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3982688255539009262.post-90438354878301767272009-06-26T12:35:33.326+01:002009-06-26T12:35:33.326+01:00More food for thought about the ANGER sobject in t...More food for thought about the ANGER sobject in the NYTimes. I am myself in favour of what I call the "pressure cooker tactique". Letting the pressure go bit by bit. <br /><br />http://happydays.blogs.nytimes.com/2009/06/25/when-the-heart-pays-the-price-of-anger/?th&emc=thClara Pracanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07460751445456199939noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3982688255539009262.post-28567499949182853452009-06-25T20:20:10.613+01:002009-06-25T20:20:10.613+01:00Clara,
Did you mean to say to try and deal with it...Clara,<br />Did you mean to say to try and deal with it by NOT being a masochist or a sadist...or to deal with it by being a masochist or a sadist?Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07539642837092651771noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3982688255539009262.post-6299417451709463402009-06-25T01:53:25.031+01:002009-06-25T01:53:25.031+01:00Relationships seem to be the most difficult thing ...Relationships seem to be the most difficult thing in the world, isn'it? Feeling too dependent makes one angry, and that can bring a circle of aggression that sometimes escapes the awareness of the people involved. <br />The sensible thing is to try to understand that anger and deal with it being either a masochist or a sadist. Easier said than done, that's true.Clara Pracanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07460751445456199939noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3982688255539009262.post-61595335044742431662009-06-24T13:44:55.964+01:002009-06-24T13:44:55.964+01:00Dear Blu,
Thank you for writing in. I think you ha...Dear Blu,<br />Thank you for writing in. I think you have brought up a good point. Typically when there is an overachiever we find an underachiever at the other end. Often times it is not a consequence of personality, but a result of one party not permitting the other to be actively involved, either because they have not thought about it, like to take care of such things themselves, or feel pressured to do so. In either case, the other can feel dumbed down, under-esteemed or under-valued and sometimes just plain bored. Perhaps its time you both sit down and try to dialogue about it to see what may come about. <br />Helaine AlmeidaHelaine Almeidahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16404790121477628725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3982688255539009262.post-40176309238859275402009-06-23T13:48:12.494+01:002009-06-23T13:48:12.494+01:00Hi,
I have noticed that when I was dating, my part...Hi,<br />I have noticed that when I was dating, my partner seemed to do everything from taking care of the dishes, laundry, cleaning up, etc to making lists of us for things to do. It was almost super human this super organized way of being. I found myself without much to do besides watch tv and surf the net. I liked it on the one hand when things were taken care of, but in the end found that i was moodier. Now im wondering if maybe too much was being done for me and my irritation was because my own growth was then being stunted?<br />thanks,<br />blubluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18096992336869174066noreply@blogger.com