Seen in the blog my ideal home
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This is the blog where counselors and therapists with the Lisbon Clinic of Therapy and Counseling (www.lisboncpc.org) write about mind issues, ideas, emotions, memories, dreams, art and life in general. You're welcome to voice your opinions. At Lisbon Clinic we value the capacity to enjoy life in spite of all its difficulties. We want to be both thoughtful and helpful.
11 Dec 2011
HOW NICE A HOME
SOCIAL NETWORKS: FACEBOOK
http://blogs.hbr.org/cs/2011/12/facebook_is_making_us_miserabl.html
27 Nov 2011
GARMONIQUE, GREAT PHOTOS
It's so nice to find something like this in the net.
http://illusion.scene360.com/art/23918/shadow-of-a-man/#comment-15268
10 Nov 2011
TOO MUCH PATHOLOGIES?
http://www.forbes.com/sites/alicegwalton/2011/11/10/the-new-mental-disorders-manual-is-crazy-making/
15 Oct 2011
PORTUGAL GOLF MASTERS 2011
12 Oct 2011
WHAT AN WONDERFUL SHOT!
Stunning.
I just love islands. I wish I knew where is this.
10 Oct 2011
RESEARCH ON DREAMS
3 Fascinating Facts About Dreams - World of Psychology
http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2011/10/09/3-fascinating-facts-about-dreams/
9 Oct 2011
BIKE CONTEST IN OREGON
StudeNt WINNER: UNIVERSITY OF OREGON
8 Oct 2011
French FIlms
The 12th edition of the French Cinema Festival in Lisbon begins Thursday and last to the16th of October.
The films will be shown in the Cinema St George and in the Portuguese Cinematheque.
Accompanying the Seventh Art, the Bar Goliardos and the restaurant Intra-Muros (AdLib) offer an accompaniment of the Eighth Art:
Each night will be dedicated to a specific wine region of France – after the film come and enjoy a good glass of wine each night from a different wine region, well-known and lesser well-known but all equally fascinating.
The wines are selected by Goliardos from his traveling through the different regions of France, all by exquisite small producers.
An excellent opportunity to combine two art forms!
There will be wine by the glass and also artisan cheeses from small producers.
Tursday 6th :
Champagne in the AdLib and Goliardos
Friday 7th :
Bourgogne, in Goliardos and AdLib
Saturday 8th :
Languedoc, and in Goliardos AdLib
Sunday 9th :
Loire in AdLib
Monday 10th :
Savoie, in AdLib
Tuesday 11th :
Rhône at AdLib
Wednesday 12th :
Bordeaux in AdLib
Thursday 13th :
Jura, in Goliardos and AdLib
Friday 14th :
Alsace in Goliardos and AdLib
Saturday 15th :
Sud-Ouest in Goliardos and AdLib
Sunday 16th :
Roussillon, in AdLib
Hours:
Goliardos: Thursday, Friday and Saturday, from 19:00 to 2:00 a.m.
Bar Intra-Muros, AdLib, Avenida da Liberdade 127, from 17:00 to 1:00
7 Oct 2011
AN INSPIRING MAN IS DEAD
2 Oct 2011
BIKE BY THE DESIGNER RON ARAD
http://www.fastcodesign.com/1665045/soft-ride-bike-has-steel-tires-and-you-can-ride-it-now
1 Oct 2011
LANGUAGE(S)
Language and words are central to the psychoanaltycal psychotherapeutic technique. Freud used to call psychoanalys "the talking cure" and anyone who had an analysis or a psychoanalytical pychotherapy knows what he meant by that.
On the other hand, if language has been a factor of civilization, we must also be cautious with words. As much as they allow us to reach other people, they can also give way to misunderstanding.
18 Sept 2011
CITIES AND BICYCLES
Have a look at how other cities have turned bike-friendly.
http://www.virgin-vacations.com/11-most-bike-friendly-cities.aspx
7 Sept 2011
THE DIFFERENT FACES OF ART
http://www.likecool.com/Little_Boat--Video--Gear.html
28 Aug 2011
LESSONS ABOUT LIFE
A pancreatic cancer, a liver transplant... This man, who was given for adoption, is a force of nature.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UF8uR6Z6KLc&feature=youtube_gdata_player
27 Aug 2011
18 Aug 2011
EXHIBITION: METROPOLITAN MUSEUM OF ART (NYC)
ArtistBrassaï (French (born Romania), Brasov 1899–1984 Côte d'Azur)
Le pilier du Métro Corvisart
[A Pillar of the Corvisart Metro]
1934
15 Aug 2011
MENTAL HEALTH AND LEADERSHIP
His thesis is that in times of crisis it might be possible that an excess of "normality" may hinder the special leadership skills required.
I still didn't read the book but in the meantime we can have a hint by reading his blog:
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/mood-swings/201108/first-rate-madness
13 Aug 2011
31 Jul 2011
STAVANGER, NORWAY
Beautiful landscape, beautiful and ivilzed people.
Sea, boats, fjords, islands, very cold water, bikes, seafood.
Out of the blue, comes that psychopath that starts killing people.
Human mind is an abyss.
8 Jul 2011
A DANGEROUS SORT OF LOVE
http://www.thesundaytimes.co.uk/sto/style/living/Emotions/article663634.ece?CMP=EMCeb15
ART AND DESIGN
Beautiful wooden objects by Cha Jong-Rye
http://thisiscolossal.com/2011/06/the-woodwork-of-cha-jong-rye/
26 Jun 2011
SAL BIGGER THAN GENGHIS?
Do have a look and see for yourself.
18 Jun 2011
ENTREPRENEURSHIP
We have to come to terms with the fact than the golden years that followed the II World War are past and gone. They lasted for almost sixty years (I'm speaking of course of Europe and the USA) and corresponded in a general way to the so-called baby boomers generation.
Nowadays young people have to be specially resortful in a global and competitive world where jobs are scarce. Entrepreneurship is something than can also be learnt although there are certain born with traits that may help. I already dealt with these issues in a previous post.
Creativity is no doubt a most important trait.
Someone recently told me about this site which is very helpful:
http://www.entrepreneur.com/article/219709
3 Jun 2011
BIOs AND RESUMÉs
Michael Margolis writes a very interesting article about writing bios.
In these hard times we're living it's important to distinguish yourself from the masses when you're competing for a position.
Have a read at:
http://the99percent.com/tips/7025/The-Resume-Is-Dead-The-Bio-Is-King?utm_source=Triggermail&utm_medium=email&utm_term=ALL&utm_campaign=MIH%20June%20%2711
14 May 2011
LONG LIVE SPRING
Spring is in full. As in this photo I took in another springtime:
6 May 2011
DREAMS AND DREAMING
http://psychology.about.com/od/statesofconsciousness/tp/facts-about-dreams.htm
1 May 2011
AUTHORITY WITHOUT RESPONSIBILITY?
http://sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/2011/04/headroom.html?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+typepad%2Fsethsmainblog+%28Seth%27s+Blog%29
24 Apr 2011
ARE BACTERIA IN COMMAND?
Sounds creepy but please read:
http://www.scientificamerican.com/article.cfm?id=the-neuroscience-of-gut
23 Apr 2011
MUSIC FOR THE WEEKEND: BILL CALLAHAN
(from the Apoclypse album)
22 Apr 2011
17 Apr 2011
HUMOUR
"I'm feeling moody, standard and poor; Socrates is not fitch"
I'm always amazed (and marvel) at the capacity to make jokes even in desperate circumstances. They say it's a symptom of mental health.
9 Apr 2011
STRESS AND COUNSELLING
Read this article in The Economist about chromosomes, stress and the importance of couselling.
http://www.economist.com/node/18526881
2 Apr 2011
WHAT IT TAKES TO BE AN ENTREPRENEUR
Nine out of ten startups fail. What does this say to us? That to be an entrepreneur, start and lead a business you need:
A. Great and direccional motivation. It's not only about self-motivation but also about being able to persuade and motivate other people.
B. Strong tolerance to frustation
C. Resilience (the capacity to face adverse conditions with courage and determination).
But this is not enough. Prior to these skills there are other capabilities:
A. Iniciative
B. Creativity and an appetite for innovation
C. Networking
D. Sense of oportunity (to acknowkedge what the market needs or may need
E. Being a risk-lover (vs a risk-averter)
An entrepreneur must be not only a manager but someone who can detect opportunities amongst the enormous amount of information that circulates around him or her. He or she must be able to take a risk and go for a well determined objective with stubborness and persistence.It's someone who doesn't take no for an answer. Most probably (s)he'll take it as maybe. (S)he's a visionary but at the same time someone quite realistic (in some cases it will help to have a partner who complements some of these traits, not easy to reunite in one person).
Many wonder if these skills are innate or can be acquired. I believe most of them, if not all, can be learnt and the soon the better. Frustration, for instance, is one of the first things a baby has to face when s(he) realizes that mother is not a hundred per cent available (this is so hard that some people never manage to deal with it, usually in collusion with their mothers).
Creativity can and must be cultivated.
Still, all this needs a lot of hard work.
Another issue comes to mind apart from these innate or acquired personality traits: external reality and circumstances. Depending on the activity or the economic area, the entrepreneur will need financing and ideally a context where resources (capital and knowledge) are available and free access to the markets.
MUSIC FOR THE WEEKEND: Iron & Wine
20 Mar 2011
THE JOYS OF READING
This is one of my favourite books. As I child I clearly remember the moment I discovered books could mean a whole new world for me. I can even say that my first moment of autonomy and independence was when I realized that learning to read would allow me a freedom that my "real" life didn't. It was not when I learned to eat by myself or to dress. It was when I realized I could find a meaning in those letters and that I would have so many travels ahead. Tarzan, cowboys, pirates.... Wonderful and strange worlds were opening up for me.
That was in the time of paper books, which appear to be a species approaching extinction (the fact is that I read quite a lot in my iPad). How will children learn that space for autonomy and freedom? Maybe learning how to use computers and have access to images and also reading. Times are changin', as Bob Dylan sang.
13 Mar 2011
HAPPY WITH YOUR LIFE OR HAPPY IN YOUR LIFE?
(satisfaction and happiness are different things)
http://www.ted.com/talks/daniel_kahneman_the_riddle_of_experience_vs_memory.html
CONTROL, PROGRESSSION, CONNECTION, BELONGING
"Money isn't the key to happiness. What really gives people meaning and happiness is a combination of four things: Control over what they're doing, progress in what they're pursuing, being connected with others, and being part of something they enjoy that's bigger than themselves".
Wonderfully put. Food for thought, isn'it?
8 Mar 2011
AGING
http://bigthink.com/series/50#!selected_item=4636
BIG THINK MAKES GREAT READING
You'll find it at:
http://bigthink.com/ideas/26676
The link above goes directly to an article about the common assumption that when we've known or been with someone for long we can guess each other's thoughts. It seems it's not quite like that.
Quoting, "Researchers tracked how people in couples read between the lines when listening to their partners, and compared that to how well they understood total strangers. Results: No difference.(...)
To communicate with a stranger, they [the authors] argue, we have to imagine the mind of the other person, and understand how things look in another's eyes. But with people close to us, we "let down our guard": We hope, or expect, or assume (or maybe feel entitled to believe, after all we've done over the years) that the other sees things exactly as we do."
Does it ring a bell?
It's a testimony to our profound similarity, and the power of language, that any one of us can, with a little effort, make herself understood to any other of us on planet Earth. We just have to accept that that kind of mind-reading is a human universal, so love has nothing to do with it.
6 Mar 2011
5 Mar 2011
1 Mar 2011
27 Feb 2011
26 Feb 2011
MUSIC FOR THE WEEK-END
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7HcvZUFBcPI&feature=youtube_gdata_player
23 Feb 2011
WAVING NOT DROWNING
I called this picture "Waving not drowning" because of one of my favourite poems which is:
Not Waving but Drowning
Nobody heard him, the dead man,
But still he lay moaning:
I was much further out than you thought
And not waving but drowning.
Poor chap, he always loved larking
And now he's dead
It must have been too cold for him his heart gave way,
They said.
Oh, no no no, it was too cold always
(Still the dead one lay moaning)
I was much too far out all my life
And not waving but drowning.
Stevie Smith
(via poem hunter http://www.poemhunter.com/)
COMMUNICATING
Ha, communicating. one of the most difficult things in the world.
Isn'it?
21 Feb 2011
2045, THE YEAR COMPUTERS BECOME MORE INTELLIGENT THEN MEN
Raymond Kurzweil believes that we're approaching a moment when computers will become intelligent, and not just intelligent but more intelligent than humans. When that happens, humanity — our bodies, our minds, our civilization — will be completely and irreversibly transformed. He believes that this moment is not only inevitable but imminent. According to his calculations, the end of human civilization as we know it is about 35 years away.
For more daring and challenging details, link to
http://www.time.com/time/health/article/0,8599,2048138,00.html
14 Feb 2011
Toward a Science of Consciousness: Brain, Mind and Reality
http://www.consciousness.arizona.edu/
12 Feb 2011
DEPRESSION AND ITS EFFECTS ON OUR SENSES
This recent study shows how depression really dulls our senses. What a shame some people still think depression is just a "state of mind" that will just go away.
GREAT MUSIC
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dLAHOglsO94&feature=youtube_gdata_player
28 Jan 2011
22 Jan 2011
9 Jan 2011
SNOBBERY, ENVY AND MERITOCRACY
http://www.ted.com/talks/alain_de_botton_a_kinder_gentler_philosophy_of_success.html
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