Positive psychologist Miriam Akhtar says that around 40% of our happiness can be controlled by ourselves. The most important thing she has learnt during the years, is that happiness is like a muscle we can train. People who want to be happy have to focus on what they want (instead of what they don't want). Just like successful athletes: they focus on winning (instead of losing). When we focus on what we want, there is space to think about ways to reach those goals.
Miriams research has led to 12 practical steps to be more happy. Read more about this here
Podcast: From Divorce to Besties
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How did Gabe and Lisa go from being spouses to divorcees to best friends?
Do they hold any residual anger toward each other? Hurt feelings? Secret
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